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August 30, 2017 by Melody

Vacilando is sold.

Some of you may know this and some of you may not, but a couple of months ago, we fairly quietly listed Vacilando for sale. I say fairly quietly, because we put up an ad on Sailboat Listings, then posted 2 Facebook posts about it. That was it.

You see, once we made it down to Guatemala for hurricane season and had a chance to take a bit of a rest, we noticed for the first time that Jet’s getting old. It’s hard to believe he’s over 10 because he still acts like a pup sometimes. During the trip down, he was a rockstar. I mean, seriously, we couldn’t have asked for more when it came to him (except the time he pooped in the dinghy and we had to… well, if you haven’t read our latest post, you’ll have to just read for yourself).

Anyway, he was a champ. He stayed calm in rough seas, tolerated getting in and out of the dinghy several times a day, and behaved himself with territorial stray dogs throughout Isla Mujeres.

But a couple months ago, Chris and I had a long talk. We didn’t like the thought of putting him through more tough cruising right now. His pannus (eye disease) is getting worse, and he will eventually go blind. To sail with him not being able to see would be cruel and stressful, and he deserves better.

In addition, with neither of us being “retired” yet, trying to work while cruising has honestly been tougher than we thought it would be. Finding good wifi in the states was a bitch, and in the Western Caribbean, even tougher.

I (Mel) had a great freelance gig come up while we were in Belize and we had to change our plans and stay in Caye Caulker an extra week because we knew I wouldn’t be able to get wifi further down in the outer islands. Even in Caye Caulker the wifi was slow, so it took me twice as long to finish the project than it normally would have, and time is money.

As you know, we released Chris’ book Burning Man in June, and it’s been tough to market it like we wanted from all the way down here (even though it did hit the Amazon bestseller list!). He has also been writing a few scripts for a TV show and unfortunately, the wifi here in Rio Dulce can be unpredictable at times, too. We are, after all, in the jungle. But the entertainment business doesn’t care that we’re in the jungle and that the howler monkeys took down a power line. They just want their script.

We have a few other potentially awesome things coming down the pipeline, and we’d like to be prepared for them.

All that to say… Vacilando is SOLD.

Yes, as of yesterday, the old girl no longer belongs to us, and has a new owner who we are confident will love her as much as we have. I’m not gonna lie… even though we knew this was the right decision, every time we got closer to a done deal, we had reservations. After all, this has been our home for almost 6 years.

We’ve laughed, cried, and loved on this boat. She has carried us safely through calm seas and angry storms, never judging us – just doing her job. She’s been our safe harbor in so many ways. It’s hard to let go of something you love… but it’s time.

As for what we’ll do now?

Well, the truth is, we’re not sure. We’ve run so many possible scenarios through our heads and our minds change daily… Get a catamaran? Easier on Jet, more room, we can just park it somewhere (with good wifi) and live/work on her until the time is right to go cruising again… Or maybe an RV? A “land yacht” where if Jet needs to go we just pull off the side of the road – no crazy dinghy rides looking for a place to poop. We can do a state and national park tour… something we’ve both dreamed about.

But to be honest, we don’t know if we’re ready to head back stateside quite yet. We’ve loved the challenges that being among other cultures has presented us, and we’d love to see more and learn more. Our Spanish is still pretty terrible, and we’d like to improve that.

All we know for sure is that we’re going to spend a month in a cool little place to decompress. You may hear from us, or you may not. We just need a little time to figure out our next steps and how to navigate our way through this new way of life, whatever that is.

We’re a mix of emotions right now, but we know there’s a new adventure around the corner, and we’re excited to see what it is.

To everyone who has inspired, encouraged, and helped us throughout the past 6 years…we cherish each and every one of you.

Thank you for coming along for the ride.

Vacilando out.

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Comments

  1. Laura says

    August 30, 2017 at 6:35 pm

    Congratulations! I know living on a boat is never as cheap as we’d like it to be. But, at least if you ever want to set sail again there will certainly not be a shortage of boats to choose from. That Jet is a lucky pooch.

    • Melody says

      August 31, 2017 at 12:20 am

      Thank you, Laura! And this definitely isn’t our last boat – I don’t think we could ever give up sailing for good. Just taking a break for awhile to let the dust settle and give the old boy a chance to grow old(er) in peace. He’s earned it.

  2. Vickie Hann says

    August 30, 2017 at 11:53 pm

    Love that you two shared so honestly how you feel and how it involves Jet. Harry and I are seriously considering an RV in a couple of years… with our family so spread out across this beautiful country… we can go stay close to each of them without having to stay in their homes.. We have no takers yet but have put Ana Stasia up for sale. Hope to meet you in a campground with Chris and Harry singing songs around a campfire with food and stories to share!!!!

    • Melody says

      August 31, 2017 at 12:18 am

      Hey Vickie!! Thank you, and this definitely isn’t our last boat, but an RV is soooo tempting right now. Freedom, but much easier on Jet in the meantime. Plus, like you said, it would allow us to see family and friends around the country easily. And yes, how fun would it be to sit around a fire and sing songs with you guys! Lots of luck in selling Ana Stasia and continuing your dreams! xo

  3. Ingrid says

    August 31, 2017 at 4:48 pm

    Well if you find yourself in Florida we always have room for you
    Open invite anytime

  4. Rikke says

    September 1, 2017 at 12:54 am

    Good luck to you.
    We looked at Vacilando in Cocoa beach in late 2014 She’s a great vessel!
    Take care of Jet. I highly recommend RV living. We’ve done it for years, before and after living on a sailboat. Our dogs loved it!
    Rikke

  5. Lauren says

    September 5, 2017 at 3:29 pm

    I know that it sounds crazy to say this as a hurricane approaches our island, but you should consider making Puerto Rico your home. We recently stopped cruising for similar reasons (two dogs adopted with heartworm that needed treating, time to return to steady wi-fi for work) and quietly sold our boat. PR has been a wonderful home to us as we figure out what’s next. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions that I can answer. Cheers to your next adventure!

  6. Gary says

    September 26, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    Chris and Mel,

    Mary and I wish you both the very best. That Jet is a lucky boy. If you are ever in the OCMD area we have empty rooms, we’re dog friendly (if Jets ok with cats) and we have great wifi. I hope we can catch up when you all are back stateside.

    Much love my friends

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ABOUT US

CHRIS: Singer/Songwriter and author from Philly, (and also the author of this blog), transplanted to Nashville, took a break from the music biz and somehow convinced his girlfriend (now wife) to live on a boat and began writing books. You can check out his music on iTunes or his books on Amazon.

MELODY: Thought her husband was crazy for wanting to live on a boat, but never one to shy away from an adventure, decided to play along and fell in love with cruising. She blogs about how to make money while cruising at Saving to Sail and helps solopreneurs build 6-figure digital product businesses at Soloprenista.

JET: Dutch Shepherd rescue who traveled more miles in his 14 years than most people do in a lifetime. Refuses to vacuum his own hair and instead insists on shrimp tails and belly rubs. (Update: Jet crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Sunday, May 23, 2021 but will always be our favorite crew member and is dearly missed.)

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