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fun

April 8, 2013 by Chris

fun

/fən/
Noun

Enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure: “anyone who turns up can join in the fun”.

You know, when it comes to new blog posts, sometimes I can get caught up in the, “All we’ve been doing is sitting on the dock and working on the boat, what is there to write about” frame of mind. I over-analyze topics and question the entertainment value that such posts will hold. Do I really want to write about rebuilding the steering pedestal? NO! I don’t… I want to write about the huge iguana we saw on our dock. I wanna write about the screaming wild parrots that fly over the boat every night. The huge angel fish we see feeding on the algae cover pilings. Sometimes I don’t care if its a “sponsor-worthy” post. I don’t care that it has some passages that are awkward and not punctuated correctly. Frankly, I’m not punctuated correctly so why should my paragraphs be?

Cryptic and meandering is good sometimes. And sometimes… I have to remind myself to have FUN. To open  my eyes, gaze up at the swaying palm fronds, stretch and be grateful for such a freaked out, weird existence we’ve created here. Sometimes I must remind myself that the laundry can be done tomorrow. The sneaky little puddle of salt water in the bilge? Screw it. We’re not going off-shore today or tomorrow. It can wait. Melody works so hard all-day-long on that stinking computer and deals with impatient sales-people on a regular basis. She won’t ever take a day off… I understand completely because I’m cut from the same cloth. Work, work, work… But sometimes, like right now~ We have to remember that this… is. Fun. If you’re on a boat, in a condo, apartment, home or high-rise, take a moment to look out the window. If you don’t have a window, find a window… better yet, a balcony. If its raining, so what, go outside… go outside and look around for just a minute and remind yourself to have fun. Time is passing at break-neck speed. Don’t get run down. Pull over to the shoulder of the road and let the crazy rat-race speed right past. Then put your existential flashers on and pull slowly out onto life’s highway and cruise. This is fun damn-it!

There is a beach one mile away from us. It’s almost 3:00 pm on a Monday. The sun is glaring and the sky is blazing azure. I think… and I could be wrong but, I might be able to talk Mel into putting on some shorts, running shoes and jogging to the beach for an afternoon swim. Then, we’ll run back to the boat, cook a lovely dinner and watch the tide flow in. Sounds like fun, right?

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Comments

  1. Anonymous says

    April 8, 2013 at 3:36 pm

    Very Well said Chris, and Yes that does sound like fun. We are approximately 3.25 miles from our beautiful white beach and I cant remember the last time we went. THAT, is sad, so yes, that sounds like Fun!!!

  2. Darla says

    April 8, 2013 at 3:42 pm

    That was actually from me,( Aunt Darla ) I dont know why it said anonymous ha ha ha

    • Melody says

      April 9, 2013 at 10:40 am

      I figured that was you!! :) We don’t know too many people who live that close to a white sandy beach!!

  3. Cheryl says

    April 8, 2013 at 3:42 pm

    Sounds like a lot more fun than I’m having right now at work. :-) I was having one of those days where things seem to be going in the wrong direction with the boat/property/money, etc…this is a very timely post. Thanks for reminding me to stop worrying so much and just enjoy the beauty that is a 72 degree spring day….finally! The rest will work itself out. xoxo

  4. danniehill says

    April 9, 2013 at 10:24 am

    Great post, Chris. My wife and I live in Thailand on a small farm and I know how you feel. Somedays I have to stop and just look at the beauty and remember where I am.

    We’re actually in Florida– Port St Lucie– for a while looking for a house so I can return to my dreams of sailing– well, I haven’t explained all that to the wife, but she knows.

    Beauty is in the mind and you bring that out in your post. Fair winds

  5. KC @ genxfinance says

    April 30, 2013 at 11:24 am

    That sounds like a fun and relaxing day. I wish we could be near the beach to enjoy the sun more.

    • Melody says

      April 30, 2013 at 11:27 am

      I wake up every morning and literally want to pinch myself. It is pretty amazing how easy it is, even in this lifestyle, to get caught up in work work work. Fun is good, we should all have it more often. :)

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CHRIS: Singer/Songwriter and author from Philly, (and also the author of this blog), transplanted to Nashville, took a break from the music biz and somehow convinced his girlfriend (now wife) to live on a boat and began writing books. You can check out his music on iTunes or his books on Amazon.

MELODY: Thought her husband was crazy for wanting to live on a boat, but never one to shy away from an adventure, decided to play along and fell in love with cruising. She blogs about how to make money while cruising at Saving to Sail and helps solopreneurs build 6-figure digital product businesses at Soloprenista.

JET: Dutch Shepherd rescue who traveled more miles in his 14 years than most people do in a lifetime. Refuses to vacuum his own hair and instead insists on shrimp tails and belly rubs. (Update: Jet crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Sunday, May 23, 2021 but will always be our favorite crew member and is dearly missed.)

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